Saying “Yes” Everyday

“I wish it was a year from now when all this craziness has passed,” Cecelia said with a sigh as we were sitting together recently at the end of the night. I was thinking, “Amen to that!” Before I could respond Tate said, “Who’s to say things are going to be better a year from now? We can only live our life to the fullest today.” So glad Tate beat me to the response. He was absolutely right.

Little kids teach us how to enjoy each day to the fullest!

If you had told me a year ago that in 2020 my baby girl would spend every day of her life after birth in the hospital, die and there would be a worldwide pandemic that would shutdown even our churches, I probably would have gone to my room and fallen into a clinical depression. Mercifully, I was unaware what the year before me held. I had an idea of the future before me, but it was only an illusion.

We are in a time of great unrest and division, it can become overwhelming. What are we to do? How can we make a difference in a world so full of hurt and injustice? Perhaps the answer is very simple.

I am reading the life story of Chiara Corbella Petrillo, a young Italian wife and mother who died very young. As she was struggling with the illness that would eventually claim her life she said, “We do not feel courageous, because in reality the only thing that we have done is said yes, one step at a time.” Perfection. This is what we are to do, this is how we make a difference – we say “yes” to God one step at a time.

Many times over the past year I struggled to give that “yes,” to give my full surrender. I wanted Philomena to get better. Everyday I was waiting for her to turn that corner, a corner that never came.

I can remember the moment when I finally accepted in my heart that she may not make it on this earth. I begged God that if this be His Will, he allow the Blessed Mother to take Philomena into her arms to heaven. This acceptance didn’t bring noticeable relief. In fact, I cried endless tears from the depths of my soul. However, it was a first step in the process of me beginning to say “yes” to losing Philomena.

Over the next couple weeks, I would continue to take small steps towards surrender. These small steps, one “yes” at a time, allowed God to fill me with the graces necessary to say my final goodbye to Philomena on earth.

I love this picture of the boys with her

What I knew a year ago, as I do now, is that God is in control. I could never have imagined what lay before me then and certainly do not now. However, upon reflection I can see clearly that God prepared me and gave me the strength to handle each day of the past year. I trust He will continue to do so each day that lies before me. I simply need to continue to give my “yes.”

I have experienced painful lessons in regards to the tenuousness of life. We are not promised tomorrow. God is asking me to say “yes” to Him today in a thousand small ways as a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend.

Dear God, I pray for the grace to give you my “yes” in all my works, joys, and sufferings today and always.

St. Philomena Pauline Marie, pray for us!

Singing Happy Birthday to the Blessed Mother! Notice sweet Thomas folding his hands❤️🙏

2 thoughts on “Saying “Yes” Everyday

  1. Thank you Lottie! It is hard to keep on and do it with hope. I need this and will put it on my mirror! Thank you Tate for the wisdom and reminder.

  2. Dear Lottie,
    When I read your blog about saying “Yes” everyday, I thought of Our Blessed Mother’s Fiat in every moment of her life from her Immaculate Conception until her Assumption into Heaven. She is our first role model of how to live in the Divine Will on earth.

    Philomena is now living in the Divine Will in Heaven and her brief, painful life was to prepare you, her family, to live the same life as her except on earth, one family, in the Divine Will. The fulfilment of the Our Father, “Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.” Our God is so in love with your family! St. Philomena, pray for us!

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